Book Gift Guide · Holiday 2026
Should “We” Get Married: Real or ego love? as a Gift for a couple thinking about marriage
🎁 Kindle gifts can be scheduled with Amazon's Buy for others option. Print: order early and check the delivery date on Amazon.
The most memorable presents say something the giver finds hard to put into words. If you'd like to tell a couple thinking about marriage that you see them and believe in them, Should “We” Get Married: Real or ego love? by Robert Anderson Love Wins says it gently, through a book about am I ready for marriage.
What Should “We” Get Married is about
In the words of its Amazon description:
“Introducing ‘Should 'We' Get Married: Your Partner Real or Ego Love’ by Robert Anderson Are you at a crossroads in your relationship, contemplating the monumental decision of marriage? In this insightful book, Anderson delves into the complex realm of relationships, love, and the delicate balance between genuine affection and ego-driven desires. With profound wisdom drawn from years of research and personal experiences, Anderson dissects the intricate layers of romantic connections.”
It's part of Robert's The Benevolent World: A Global Awakening series.
Who would love this gift
A few people on your list who may especially appreciate it:
- A couple thinking about marriage. It's written for people at a crossroads, contemplating the decision to marry.
- A newly engaged friend. It asks the honest question at the heart of the title: real or ego love?
- Someone who wants a thoughtful conversation starter. It can open a deeper conversation between partners.
As the description puts it: “Whether you're in the throes of a blossoming romance or seeking clarity on a long-term commitment, this book offers a fresh perspective that will inspire you to forge a path towards enduring love.”
Why it makes a beautiful gift
It can also be a gift for two. Read it side by side with a partner or a close friend, and talk about signs you're ready to get married over coffee.
A book about love and connection never says “you're doing it wrong.” It says “our relationships are worth growing.” That's a warm thing to give someone you care about.
Formats and how to give it
Give it as a gift. Giving the Kindle edition takes a minute: on its Amazon page, select Buy for others, type the recipient's email, write a message and choose when it arrives. You can also send the link to yourself and forward it when you're ready. No Kindle device is needed; the free Kindle app works too. Kindle gifts can be redeemed by recipients in the same country as the buyer.
If you'd like a book they can hold, it also comes in paperback. Order early so it arrives in time for the holidays; Amazon shows the expected delivery date at checkout.
What to write on the gift tag
A short handwritten note turns a book into a keepsake. Something like:
“You make my life richer. Here's to more connection in the year ahead.”
You'll find formats and details on the book page for Should “We” Get Married. If you'd like a taste of Robert's writing before you give, the free samples are a good place to start, and the Book Gift Guide has ideas for the rest of your list.
More gift ideas
- Love Wins: A Journey Through the Many Facets of Love: for a friend who is hard on themselves
- Killing the Fear Monster: for a friend who longs for love but fears intimacy
- The Apology Test: Genuine Love vs Ego-Centered Love: for a couple who wants to grow closer
- All gift ideas